Monday, October 23, 2017

Update 70: New Transfer and New Curve Balls

Here are my digital journal updates for what happened during transfers: 

16 Oct 2017 Mon Week 70
Crazy planning meeting for transfers. Nelson and I will be busy. Stayed at the mission home until almost 8:30 making plans and prepping what we discussed in the meeting. Made Mac and Cheese for dinner; a box per person. On point!
17 Oct 2017 Tue 
A day full of crazy preparations. Elder Bullough had his exit interview so we got to entertain Elder Wayne for awhile. It was fun to chat with him again.    Sister Scott got a call from the service center telling her that the new sister from Vietnam had landed at the airport when we weren’t expecting her until Thursday night. After some running around there was another update that she was coming in tomorrow, not today. But that still places her right in the middle of transfers. Another bump in the plan to work around.    In the evening, KC people showed up first. Elder Cox, Woolf, and two sisters. Nelson and I still had a ton of things to do, so Woolf stayed with Nelson in the office as he prepped plans and I ran errands with Cox. We picked up the map I ordered for the BB 2 elders, picked up nametags, and bought bus tickets for tomorrow. It was nice to chat with Elder Cox; we started talking about some cool study ideas and then got cut off by the bus station and never got to finish the discussion.  :P  Maybe later; he’s my zone leader so I think I’ll get to exchange with him this transfer. While we were at the bus station the rest of the missionaries arrived from the provinces and they all came up to me while I’m trying to order tickets and asked if we were going to take them to the mission home. I still only had the Ford Escape, not the mission van. Most everyone took a tuk-tuk, but I squeezed 4 elders and their stuff into the car and we made it back to the mission home.  We had all the elders and all but 2 of the sisters come in from the provinces. Both the mission home and our house was packed with elders and then the sisters were crammed into the nearest sister houses. 
18 Oct 2017 Wed
Transfers. Crazy. Breakfast? Forget it, a snack will be lucky. Arranged to have people bike bikes over to the bus station again around 8 and then we drove some of them back and some went in tuk-tuks since we still have the small car. Had to change three of the tickets we bought yesterday. There was so much chaos, noise, people, everything in the mission home and we were had to help everyone.       Got pulled over and had to pay a $2.50 fine while taking some missionaries to the bus station. It’s frustratingly funny too, because I was driving slow and careful as possible because I wasn’t in a rush to get to the bus station. Stopped at a red light, started to go and a police man pulled me over on the other side of the intersection, just stepped in front of my car. Then the other cop just said my driving wasn’t good, wouldn’t tell me what I did wrong. He asked for my license. I gave it to him. He checked it and gave it back. Then asked me how much I thought my fine should be. I told him 50 cents and he said at least 2.50. I opened my wallet to see what I had and I have the Khmer bill that equals 2.50; he saw it and again said to give him 2.50. At this point no one was standing in front of me and I could have gunned it out of there, but I’d already talked to them and they’d probably recognize other missionaries. So I just paid it. A $2.50 ticket in America is nothing, it’s just frustrating here because it was right before lunch and I’m pretty sure they just needed some lunch money. I had two sisters in the back, Sister Pratt and Sok. Sister Sok, the native, said that it was annoying too and she was sorry. If I had been driving speedy like I normally have to to get people to the bus station, then I probably wouldn’t have got the ticket. Oh well.     After we got all the bus stuff done we had to figure out what to do with all the trainers waiting for their trainees. We ended up letting them borrow some of the trainee’s bikes because we didn’t have enough.     The Jones and Colvins made it back and we swapped cars. Back to the mission van.   Osada was at the church for an appointment that we’d forgotten about and we were too busy to go teach him. Felt so bad.       Met Schiefer’s family and Mendenhall’s family in the evening when they came to attend the dying missionaries’ testimony meeting.  All nice people, just made for an interesting gathering. Sister Christensen had us go help eat some of the left-over dinner, there was a lot of food left, while they had their meeting. I finished making some anti-death cards to give to them. (people hand out death cards when they die, but since they’re dying they won’t be here when I do, so I made them one now) I put them in their bags and they can find them later. Some of the trainers staying at the mission home showed up back to sleep. Meeting finished and we all said goodbyes. Lackey was there, training, and we got a picture with Schiefer (he trained both of us). Got a picture with Bullough and Schiefer too. I’m going to miss those elders. 
19 Oct 2017 Thu 
Most all the trainers played b-ball in the morning and I actually made several awesome shots. I checked in the ball once, backed up a bit and drained it. Another time I made a hook shot over my defender and it swished in. Made a couple other various threes and rebounds. It’s fun because Nelson was doing good as well and no one really expects us to do anything. Elder Ashcroft is still a baller and can drive through anything to get his layup. I also think that half of the passes he had were interceptions our team threw; quick guy with an eye for the ball.    After that more morning preparation. We had to run all the trainee’s bikes who were going to the provinces to the bus station. I broke a rear reflector when I was trying to place a strategic kick to make a bike fit in the van. We had to go to Giant store anyways to pick up Sister Benson’s bike and I bought a new one there to replace it. From the bus station we had to go straight to the airport to make it there on time. We got there after they had landed, but before they came out and President and the trainers all made it there just before all the trainees came out. Got the pictures, got the luggage, put the trainees in a tuk-tuk with their trainers and one other companionship of trainer/trainee, and loaded almost all of their luggage into the van. With 16 missionaries it was a lot of luggage and I was quite sweaty after lugging it all into the van. (There were supposed to be 17 missionaries, but one Elder had to wait a day due to travel issues.) Back to the mission home, unload all the luggage. Commence more craziness. The mission home smelled so bad. I guess it was because of their flight, but all the trainees had some serious BO. Several missionaries kept coming up to me and asking if we had some air freshener in the mission home, which we didn’t. Once the food arrived that helped to cover up the smell. We had loklak for everyone = rice, fried egg, fried beef, tomatoes, lettuce, and onion. I had to prep two new phones for the new areas opening up and still prep for people interviewing with president, and bus times, and on and on and on. Managed to get everything done by sending Nelson with Elder Christensen the younger to take people to the bus station (Elder Christensen is training the delayed trainee). After we got them all off we caught our breath a bit in the office and Elder Christensen helped us get some things done. 
20 Oct 2017 Fri
Went to pick up the delayed trainee about 9:30 via Tuktuk. Elder Scott had a last-minute errand and we couldn’t ride with them or else we would have been very late. The plan had been to drive up all together in their car and then ride back in a tuk-tuk with the luggage in the Scott’s car. Adjusted plan we rode there in a tuk-tuk, rode to his new house with his luggage and us and dropped off his luggage. Thankfully it was on the way back because he will be trained in TukThlaa. It was fun because Nelson, Christensen, and myself have all served there. Also, right as we got out of the tuk-tuk Bora Try pulled up on his moto. He delivers stuff for the church and happened to be there the same time. Nostalgic, being at my old house with my old companion. They’re moving out of house number 100 in the next few days though. Christensen is training Elder Jones who is from Wales, so he was fun to talk to. We ordered lunch to the mission home, had burgers. Elder Schiefer had left me an inheritance package and I had fun going through that while we were waiting for lunch to arrive. While I was in training he got a package from his trainer and explained that one day I would get one from him and today is the day since he’s done. It’s kind of mission culture. Maybe half or less of the people do it. Some training lines pass down a tie or something from trainer to trainee.     After we got Christensen and Jones on their way we had an hour or so to recuperate and then we had a lesson with Vivian at the church. She actually called us while we were riding to the airport and scheduled herself in, great investigator. She did show up late though and Tina never showed (she was supposed to be our member help) Thankfully Muoy was there and we talked with her some while we waited for Vivian to show up and then she helped us teach. Vivian actually brought two Khmer ladies and one of their kids along with her, well they drove a big truck. Vivian said she brought them to learn with her, but we had the CKM sisters talk with them (they don’t know English) and they weren’t interested at all. I think they just work for Vivian, something about cleaning ladies, but they know how to drive a car? Anywho, the lesson with Vivian went well. She just talks a lot and it is hard to answer her questions because she cuts us off and asks her questions 5 times in 3 different ways before we can get to the answer because we need to teach background information to have our answer make sense. Last time we’d printed off the lesson 1 pamphlet in Mandarin and we went straight into lesson 2 this time. So no review of lesson 1, but she said she read it and then we tried to answer all her questions about her dead husband and why she saw him in chains in a dream of hers and about the plan of salvation. Very mentally draining, but her desire is great. We had her say the prayer at the end and Muoy said it was very powerful and that she expressed thanks to God for helping her have the opportunity to learn with the missionaries and find the church. She’s told us before that she felt like God led her to Cambodia and she didn’t really have a desire or reason to come here, but came anyways. It’s frustrating to hear her speak Mandarin with Muoy and I pick out words every now and then, but it makes me want to learn Mandarin again. Frustrating that I’ve forgotten most everything I learned in school. So that was a long lesson and we left her with 3 chapters to read in Alma (7, 34, and 40) that talk more about the plan of salvation. It was funny because we tried to get her to read 3 verses or so out of a couple of those chapters and she would either start at the beginning of the chapter or just keep reading past what we asked her. She speed reads too, and just has this great desire to study scripture and understand about God’s word. Really good investigator.     Back to the office. Finish up stuff. 

Here is a link to our mission Facebook page with several photos: https://www.facebook.com/CambodiaPhnomPenhLDSMission/ 
and some of the same pictures with a few more: https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B4sAcsBO8F53NTRwaEtzVUplWlU

Soo yeah, been busy. Life is good. Hope all is well with y'all!

With love ដោយសេចក្តីស្រលាញ់
- Elder Taylor

Letters will be joyously received at: 
Elder Taylor
Cambodia Phnom Penh Mission 
House 2B, st. 222 off Norodom
P.O. Box 165
Phnom Penh Cambodia 

Sunday, October 22, 2017

Update 69: 4th Transfer in the Office!

Transfer calls came out and I'm staying for one more with Elder Nelson in the office! 
As a result, much preparation has been underway for the 18 new missionaries arriving this week. In case you were wondering, that's a lot. A lot a lot. 
We did meet Vivian and Travis and both are wonderful. Vivian is eager to read the Book of Mormon and Travis has many great questions about how we are different from others. 
So, my apologies for a short email, but I hope it is better than none. 
Love, Y'all!
- Elder Taylor

The attached photos are from a birthday dinner we had at the Thurston's and dessert at the Curtis'. Also a photo of two of my investigators from TukThlaa that were baptized a while back. Love seeing them progress even after I've left! I've seen one of them in person, and he thanked me so much for bringing the gospel into his life. Being a missionary and seeing the light of Christ brought into peoples lives is a wonderful opportunity.   

Letters will be joyously received at: 
Elder Taylor
Cambodia Phnom Penh Mission 
House 2B, st. 222 off Norodom
P.O. Box 165
Phnom Penh Cambodia 


Wednesday, October 11, 2017

Week 68: "Update 60 something ish: Updates On My Missionary Life"

Hello, World! It has been a while since I really sat down and did a fleshed out weekly email. To all of those who actually read my weekly updates, sorry they haven’t been very informative. I’ll try to rectify some of the injustices with this update. (and this coming week I'll do a picture update email)
                As most of you probably know by now, I’m an office elder. What is an office elder? Well, my official title is Mission Secretary and my companion, also an office elder, is the Mission Clerk. He largely handles numbers, baptismal records, and bikes for the mission. My main job is to handle incoming/outgoing missionaries, manage the mission’s Facebook pages, come up with/film/and edit videos to put on said pages, handle all phone issues, create maps when needed, and order nametags for missionaries who need new ones. Both of us also have a smattering of other smaller jobs that only need to be done every once in a while. We also get saddled with random projects as they come up and need to be done. For example, this past transfer has been very busy with preparing for Pshum Bun and General Conference. As office elders, we planned, coordinated, and prepared for both of these events that took many hours to do. On top of our bottomless pit office jobs, we also proselyte; or rather, we teach about the gospel of Jesus Christ. When I first got to the office we had a good amount of people to teach, or investigators. During the transition of Elder Ashcroft and Elder Nelson most all of our investigators dropped us or weren’t really progressing. Since Elder Nelson has been here, we have started to have more investigators again. Which is great! But it makes my life that much busier. There is some general background; I’m on the computer a bunch, and when I get my day off I often don’t even get that much time off because I’m needed elsewhere to prepare for an impending meeting or event. So, when I really do get free time, I just want to go take a nap, read, or play a couple games with the other Elders in my house. (All of which I did this past Monday = preparation day = p day = my day off; well most of a day, from 4:30 – 7:30 are proselyting hours)
                Ok, down to the good stuff; teaching the good word of God. As of right now my teaching pool consists of: Deepak, Kena (she’s kinda sorta back!), Osada, Bernadette, Sheryl, the Pervaiz family of 5, and Moses. We also have several potentials that we are trying to meet with this week: Travis, Ron, friends of DeePak, Sylvester and his 2 friends, Vivian, and the Yarza family. We also still try to visit Ben and Roat, our recent converts that were baptized last transfer, and with the two Pakistani families that are also recent converts: Wajid and Ayeshu and the Ghil family. I could write a small novel trying to tell about all of my experiences with each of these remarkable people; instead I’ll have to try to limit myself to a respectable email length.   
                Deepak: Manages an Indian restaurant right across from one of our churches and has been meaning to come to our church for a long time, and finally did a couple weeks ago. He really wants to become a Christian but these past two weeks has been quite busy and not been able to make it to church or meet with us.
                Kena: I was her initial contact back when I served in Jum-Gow-Moon ចំការមន and we passed her on to the office elders since they teach the internationals. Then I was transferred into the office and taught her once and she went to America for a month or so. She continued learning there with the elders and came back ready to be baptized according to the elders that taught her in America. She got back, we had two or so lessons and she dropped us. Stopped coming, stopped learning. Then two Sundays ago one of the young women in our branch that she had been close friends with told us that Kena was thinking about coming back to church because she missed how she felt. Then she showed up to the Sunday morning session of conference and stayed for the branch luncheon. She’s back!
                Osada: Is an eccentric old Japanese man that has been learning and coming to church for at least one year, maybe three? He has also been learning Khmer on top of his English for a little while now. Teaching him can be a bit difficult at times, language wise, but we’re getting there.
                Bernadette: A wonderful woman from the Philippines who is here with her member boyfriend. We are making slow, but steady progress. We’ve been meeting her for as long as I’ve been in the office.
                Sheryl: I don’t know too much about her yet. We’ve met her once and she comes to church sporadically for even before I was in the office. Her husband, Ron, became interested in learning right before they went to France a few weeks ago. Will be following up on them.
                Pervaiz: A Christian refugee family from Pakistan. They are struggling to manage here in Cambodia, but their faith in Christ is strong. They are currently still looking for a house the is cheap enough for them to rent close to the church so that they can come to church on Sunday. As it is we’ve met with one of the sons the past couple times and the family has all been out looking for a new house (besides the oldest son who has a job).
                Moses: Is an eccentric Chinese man. His English is probably a little worse than Osada’s. He used to meet with us often when we had Drew here helping us teach. (he was an intern here from America that served a mission in Taiwan and speaks fluent Mandarin) Since he left he’s been too busy to meet, but still comes to church about half the time.
                Travis: A referral from the TukThlaa sisters. He teaches with a recent convert of the sisters from TukThlaa and she invited him to come to church. He came for all of church and is excited to meet with the missionaries to discuss the church more. We are set to meet him on Saturday right now.
                Sylvester: Is another Indian man who showed up to church unexpected but very welcomed. We haven’t had a chance to teach him yet, but we are excited to get to know him and his story better.
                Vivian: Is a Chinese woman who showed up to conference sessions on Sunday with 3 friends. She believes in Christ and has been looking for a place to worship and feel of the Spirit. She had been going to a Buddhist temple every morning, but was so happy to find our church and loved the way she felt while she watched general conference. It will be an exciting lesson when we get to teach her about God’s temples here on Earth.
                Yarzas: Are a less active family. I’ve met two of the children who have come a couple times. They have a younger sibling who turned 9 not too long ago and now needs to be taught the missionary lessons before they can be baptized. (Fun Fact: Their name is Aiken, which is also the name of my home town in South Carolina) We’ve been scheduled to meet them twice and once their house flooded and they refused help and the second time our car broke and their house flooded again. Then this past Sunday they were going to a party. One of these weeks we’ll get to meet with them!
                Ben and Roat: Are doing well. Roat is helping her family set up a business selling purses, makeup, and such while she is still around. She is a native who is married to an American, but her visa expired and she got kicked out of America with her kids and now they’re waiting for paperwork to be figured out. She has such a good heart and a sharp mind. Before, when she was in America, she would just send money and that wasn’t working. Now she has a hands-on chance to fix it.
                Wajid and Ayeshu: Were baptized the transfer before I got to the office. They are so kind and always insist on us eating food, even though they are struggling. (It’s really good food) Their visas have expired and they are at a loss for what to do and prayers could be used in their behalf. If they were to try to leave country at this point they have an almost $1000 fine.
                Ghils: Are another Pakistani family of recent converts. They have a crazy family story from the past 3 or 4 years. In the secret filming video in this link they talk to their oldest daughter http://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-35654804 . It’s been more crazy in Cambodia, but they have seen many blessings in their lives here. Finding housing, work, schooling, and methods to start a business and keep their visas from expiring. They are actually living on the same apartment level as Wajid and Ayeshu so we get to see them at the same times. It is hard to see how one family is overcoming many problems while the other is not seeming to have any progress.
                These people are a big focus in my life right now. It is an amazing, indescribable experience, being a missionary.
3 Nephi 5: 13 Behold, I am a disciple of Jesus Christ, the Son of God. I have been called of him to declare his word among his people, that they might have everlasting life.
 Amen.

- Elder Taylor

Letters will be joyously received at: 
Elder Taylor
Cambodia Phnom Penh Mission 
House 2B, st. 222 off Norodom
P.O. Box 165
Phnom Penh Cambodia 

Week 67: More Birthday Photos! :)

Birthday dinner at the Thurstons apartment. 
- Elder Taylor

Letters will be joyously received at: 
Elder Taylor
Cambodia Phnom Penh Mission 
House 2B, st. 222 off Norodom
P.O. Box 165
Phnom Penh Cambodia